6 Reasons Your Cat Won't Stop Meowing At You



Do you find yourself asking, “Why does my cat meow so much?” Does your cat carry on entire conversations with you? Cats communicate through a variety of sounds and vocalizations, from meows to growls to hisses. As kittens, they’ll meow to their moms when they’re cold, hungry, or scared. But as they age, cats mostly rely on body language and other more subtle vocalizations. But did you know that adult cats reserve their meows for communicating with their humans?

Most cat owners can agree that after a while, deciphering our cat’s meows becomes almost second nature. There’s the ever infamous “I’m hungry” meow and the “C’mon, let’s play!” trills.  But besides the obvious meows we’re able to easily recognize as cat parents, there are more than a few reasons your cat keeps meowing at you.


1. Illness

Some cats are naturally more chatty than others - Siamese cats are known for being especially fond of expressing their opinions vocally. But if your cat is suddenly meowing more than usual, to the point of excessiveness, this may be a sign of an underlying illness. For instance, cats of all ages can develop an overactive thyroid or kidney disease, both of which can result in excessive vocalizations. It’s important to pay attention to your cat’s behavior - and of course, their meows. They may be trying to tell you something is wrong and a vet checkup may be in order.


2. Stressors

While some cats handle stress differently (like humans), a stressed cat may often become more vocal. Whether you’ve introduced a new pet or there has been a big move or changes made in the home, if your cat is stressed they might turn into a talker. Observe your cat for other signs of stress, and try to root out the source of it. If you can’t locate the source of stress or are unable to change it, be sure to give your cat some extra TLC and quiet time to help calm them down. Vertical space such as a cat tree can furnish some needed space or a hiding place that can reduce your cat’s stress as well as provide a great place to sleep or exercise.


3. Signs of Aging

As cats age, they can sometimes suffer from a form of mental confusion (or cognitive dysfunction), just like humans. This can cause them to become disoriented and cry for no apparent reason, especially at night. A nightlight sometimes can help if your cat becomes disoriented at night, and veterinarians often can prescribe medications that help ease these symptoms.


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4. They’re in heat

If your cat is not spayed or neutered, be prepared for a lot more racket. Unaltered females in heat will yowl to attract a mate - and unaltered males will yowl in reply when they smell a female in heat. Spaying and neutering your cat will prevent this caterwauling. On top of that, spaying and neutering can actually improve your pet’s health, curb behavioral issues, and help save on the long-term cost of veterinary care.

5. Attention Seeking

While cats aren’t pack animals like dogs, that doesn’t mean they want to be alone all the time! Cats prefer to be social with the humans they love and trust. So despite the stereotypes of the “aloof” cat, your cat may be meowing to grab your attention because they’re feeling lonely - or even just bored.

If your cat isn’t getting the attention or stimulation they crave, it can result in incessant meows and 4 am kitty wake up calls. Provide your favorite feline with plenty of playtime with you - a tired cat is a quiet cat! But also provide them with toys they can bat around themselves during the day when you’re not home to encourage them to play. Catnip-filled toys are a great choice as the catnip also stimulates and encourages your cat to play - instead of nap all day.

6. Begging

Most pet parents know this meow like the back of their hand: The “FEED ME” meow. Many cats learn that anytime someone walks into the kitchen, if they meow for food there’s a chance they’ll get a bite to eat. And anytime you feed them after they come in meows blaring, you’re reinforcing this behavior. If your cat is a chronic beggar who meows at the top of their lungs, avoid feeding your cat when he cries. Wait until he quiets down to put down food, and don’t give her treats when she meows.


  • Sierra

    My cat came hone a couple of hours from being gone a week five or take, and sometimes she starts meowing at me repeatedly and I think that she just wants attention bc she was locked in a shed or something, so after reading this article I wasn’t as worried because figuring that she was locked in a shed all alone, she’s lonely and wants love, or she’s apologizing for getting stuck.. lol either way I feel crappy because I was calling out for her for days thinking the was in a tree and I heard no response.. and I didn’t even think to ask the neighbors to open their sheds,,, well…. I did think about it….. but I’m super duper shy so…🤷🏻‍♀️😢

  • Thea

    My youngest cat keeps on getting outside and is loving people more than she should. I know that cats can detect when something is going to go wrong. I just don’t understand her sometimes. My cat also NEVER sleeps, or it seems like that and non stop she has been sleeping. Could this be a sign for anything? She is a Gray Tabby.

    My oldest cat is a Siamese and as she is getting older (she is 18) she is starting to get crazier and crazier. Does this mean anything or am I just freaking out. Also, she is eating more food in one sitting than she used to. Whenever the bowl is empty I always fill it up because I am not going to wake up to meows.

  • Genevieve

    My cat has suddenly started hissing and growling at my husband. They were very close but all of a sudden my cat is terrorizing my husband to the point I have to come and help him go from room to room. Emma my cat will corner him and not let him go. It’s kind of scary. Any suggestions will be appreciated.

  • Jeff

    And bad teeth too. My boy had to have 7 teeth removed.

  • Kallie

    My male cat has been a 4 am ( always between 4:13 am-4:46 am ) talker since I found him when he was around 6 weeks. He has varied between playful cat barking to aspiring opera meowing, but it always is the WORST for the 3 days around a full moon. Has anyone else noticed anything like that with their cat?

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